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What in your opinion, is a healthy and happy relationship? For me, it's :

1. Mutual respect.
2. Mutual physical attraction
3. Mutual attraction personality-wise
4. Mutual understanding of each other.

Honestly? I have no idea. The last one I had was such a disaster it twisted my worldview so much I can't think of being in a relationship where I know what it means or where it is going.